Talking about Love: Messages from my Spirit Guide, Kaine

Hey everyone,

So for today’s reading my spirit guide, Kaine would like me to deliver some messages for all of you! ❤

What would you like to talk about today?

I would like to talk about love today. Ask yourself what does love mean to you? You experience so much love each day even though you may not realize it. There are times when the word ‘love’ seems to express too much and too little all at the same time. How can one word represent how you feel when you see a waterfall, or a butterfly, but also how you feel when you’re around loved ones? As some of you may joke, you fight and argue more with your family than you would consider the idea that you ‘love’ them and ‘get along.’ But as I have mentioned before, love is shown in many different ways, so when you do fight and argue with your loved ones it is in part due to how much you care about them and how much you care about each other. You try so hard for them to understand the way you see things because they are important to you. And so, we would argue that this time you spend fighting with your family and other loved ones is also you loving them and each other. However we would advice you to try to see things the way your higher self does and avoid these arguments as they are not as productive as being understanding and appreciative of one another.

But! back onto the word ‘love!’  So what we would ask of you who have a difficult time with the word love is to just let go of the definitions you have for it and just base the word love on how you feel. That feeling you get when you see something during your day that makes you happy. Like when some stranger smiles at you or gives you a compliment. Or when a loved one surprises you with dinner when you arrive home after a day at work. If you are able to let go of these definitions on what is love then you can begin letting go of the beliefs you hold on when you can and do feel love. You can let go of the fear that if you tell someone you love them that they will take it the wrong way or that it’s ‘too early’ in the relationship. And you can let go of the fear you have of expressing what you love to those around you. If you would like to tell people all about the mundane things that made you happy during your day then do so! Remind them to see the joy in the littler things as well in their own day!

Is there more that you would like to say about love?

Yes, thank you. One thing that can really change your life is noticing the things you do that you love about yourself. Begin making a list and writing the things you love about yourself. And it can be as simple as your laugh or your smile. Or about how you get all giddy about a certain topic or subject. Remember that as you love those around you in your life you also cannot forget to love yourself. When you write this list and something negative comes up, just recognize that the thought is there and let it go, remind yourself that you are taking this time to love yourself and continue on with your list. It could be that the things that you dislike about yourself are things that others absolutely love about you. So be gentle with yourself, please. Treat yourself as you would anyone else in your life – with love and respect. ❤

Is there anything more you would like to say?

Yes, as always, there is always more to say. During your day just try to focus on the things that happen that make you happy, that put a smile on your face. And if you would like to, try writing in a notebook all the things that happened during your day that made you happy, whether they were little everyday things or not. Focusing on the things that you love and the things that you are grateful for helps you see the positive in your life and raise your vibration. You will find that instead of being angry at someone for being in a rush while driving that you may instead begin considering the ideas that maybe they are late for work or someone they care about is in the hospital. This is because while you are in this state of higher vibration, seeing the good in life, focusing on the positive and what you love, that it is much more difficult to entertain thoughts that are more negative or lower in vibration such as anger and frustration.

But for now, simply focus on the things that make you happy during your day and what you love about yourself. Making small changes like this can and will change your life in bigger ways than you will expect. 

Thank you again, Katherine, for delivering my messages. I am truly excited and delighted to be able to watch all of you grow and experience new things each day. Love yourself as we love you.

An idea I had while delivering Kaine’s messages was that if you find doing two lists each day too much, you can always just alternate each day. Do a list of what you love about yourself one day, and the next day write a list on the things that made you happy. Either way this is exciting to me!

Thank you, all and I hope you all have a wonderful day!

Blessed Be,

Katherine Everett


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